Clown Knives....... well, they look very cute as babies, but like Dan said, they do get huge. Mine is currently around 19" and still growing a little. Here's some quick info for you on them:
Tank size - 180 gallons minimum and larger if you want to try keeping other fish will them. They usually reach around 22 to 26" in an aquarium. They need plenty of open swimming space and a nice large cave to spend daylight hours in as they are nocturnal.
Diet - Clowns are predatory, so small fish of some kind are essential. Thjey can also be convinced to eat prepared foods, so you can give them a good variety of foods and vitamens. They're total carnivores, so veggie material is not required. Some will also eat pieces of shrimp or crab, but go easy on the animal protein as they don't digest it as well as most cichlids can.
Compatibility - it can be hard finding tankmates for a Clown as they'll eat anything small enough to fit in their mouths and will sometimes try to eat larger fish that don't fit. 3 to 4" Convicts are easy prey for my Clown. They're also pretty skittish fish and don't like aggressive tankmates. Oscars are not good and they will bully and stress a Clown. Severums are ok, I have two in with my Clown and they get along pretty well. Parrots are another no no, they are too aggressive for a Clown and while they may not be able to do any physical damage, they would stress a Clown far too much. Clowns are great jumpers and will try to evacuate a tank if put under too much pressure. They also do not like each other once they reach maturity, or other Knives that look similar.
Sexing - not possible from physical attributes. They are not ventable like cichlids and the only way to tell if you have a female is to see her lay eggs.
Breeding - has been done, but very, very rare. Clowns don't like other Clowns, or other Knife Fish of a similar appearance. You'd need a massive tank, 300 gallons or larger to be able to keep two Clowns together to see if you had a pair.
A Clown Knifefish is a huge commitment in time, money and space. Unless you are prepared to spend the money needed on good quality food, large tanks and top notch filtration, then I'd suggest you return your baby to the lfs. My partner and I gave up our second bedroom in order to have a larger enough tank for our Clown. Think about where you could keep a 6' x 2' x 2' tank (thats MINIMUM size btw) and if you're prepared to look after a fish this large long term. Clowns can live a long time, 15 to 20 years, maybe even longer. You'd have to be prepared to house yours for the rest of its life, as I doubt there are many fish stores that would willingly take back a larger Clown.