Magic Tom, thanks! Last night's display appeared to indicate the 'fanning' stage as both were in and out of their shell, whereas previously she wouldn't let him anywhere near her. It's the first time they've shown anything close to a harmonious relationship but today they don't appear as frantic and he is back to keeping his distance and the shell is not guarded as close.
I'm assuming spawning in a community tank is unlikely to be successful, what with the Synos and other Neolamps present? I'm wondering if transfering the shell to my fry tank would help matters?