I apologize, bad day yesterday, and my last post was blunter than it should have been

I really do think though, that you need to have a serious rethink on your stocking, and I think you're seeing that in the responses you've posted from that other website.
Some of the fish you have will work well with each other and some will not. You've really got three groups in there, the Malawi's, the Tanganyikans and the Peacock, who, though being a hybrid, is decended from species usually found in Lake Victoria. If it were me, I would have a good long think about which of these groups you want to focus on. Ocne you've decided where you want to specialize, you can look at rehoming the others and increasing your stocking levels of the fish you decide to keep. A ratio of 1 male to 3 or 4 females is the usual recommended stocking level, as per one of those replys in your lst post, so you'll probably end up with the same number of fish, just a little more streamlined

I have to say, I can totally understand your enthusiasm for African cichlids. They are neat fish with great personalities and so much fun to keep. If I hadn't been bitten by the oddball bug, I'd probably have a 180g Mbuna tank by now, instead of the weirdo's I have in the 180 at the moment

Once we've got your stocking sorted out, you're gonna love this tank!!