Well my cons are like everyone elses breeding
about every 4 weeks, so the thing to do is
I take the male out and put him in another tank
for about a week after spawning I have a female
that likes to perform hate crimes on all the other
fish so i keep it like that and after about a week
I reintroduce the male, yes stressful, but she killed
one of her mates before and almost killed the second
one to before I got to him.