I have also heard this, but only after my own experience with them. I had a male, and then proceeded to add a female. They got along fine. They began to act as though they were pairing up. I was pretty excited about it. I added an apple snail to their tank. I dunno if it was the snail, or just the Bettas bein' Bettas, but they did make a bubble nest, and laid eggs, and he began fertilizing, but that friggin' snail kept devouring the nest, eggs and all. They kept trying and trying, but eventually the male freaked out and killed the female.

I was so dissapointed. So now I'm left wondering; was it just that this is the way breeding Bettas are, or was it the snail stressing them out?
I will be trying this again soon, and will have a seperate tank in case the aggression starts up. Needless to say, there will be no snail!! IME, not everything stated in Adam's post was applicable to my own situation, as I just bought a random male, and added a random female afterwards. They did attempt breeding with no prompting of any sort from me. But, the male did kill the female later, however, so there is some truth to it. I have not read anything on the net about this behaviour in Bettas, but I have heard this information before. I guess in the end it's whatever happens, happens.
When I do start my little 7.5 up with Bettas, I'll let you guys know how it goes.
Adam; do you know if it's possible to have more than 1 female with the male at a time, like a colony, or are they "pair only" breeders? I only know as much as my own experience has taught me... not very much yet!